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Why Feeling Like a Fraud Means You’re Growing

November 21, 2024

I'm the woman who transformed adversity into triumph: I left my economic development job, navigated through divorce, and built a business that realized my dreams. Blending support with strategy, I turn dreams into reality. My mission? To empower women to boldly chase their entrepreneurial ambitions every day!

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If you’ve ever felt like you’re not good enough, not qualified, or not ready for your next big step, you’re not alone. Many of us battle imposter syndrome—that persistent fear of being exposed as a fraud, even when there’s evidence proving otherwise. Here’s the truth: feeling like a fraud doesn’t mean you’re not capable—it means you’re growing.

In this blog post, we’ll unpack what imposter syndrome really is, why it shows up, and how you can reframe it as a signal of progress. You’ll also walk away with five actionable strategies to overcome self-doubt and start stepping boldly into your full potential.


What Is Imposter Syndrome?

Imposter syndrome is that nagging voice in your head telling you, “You’re not good enough,” or “They’re going to find out you don’t belong here.” It thrives on self-doubt, often manifesting in three sneaky ways:

  1. Constant Comparison: Scrolling social media and feeling like everyone else is more successful, more talented, or more prepared.
  2. Attributing Success to Luck: Writing off your achievements as flukes instead of recognizing the hard work that made them happen.
  3. Perfectionism: Believing you need to have everything figured out before you’re worthy of success.

Even the most successful people—think Jenna Kutcher, Amy Porterfield, and Mel Robbins—have openly shared their struggles with imposter syndrome. So if you’re feeling this way, it’s not a sign you’re failing; it’s a sign you care.


Why Does Imposter Syndrome Show Up?

Imposter syndrome often appears when you’re leveling up. It’s a natural response to stepping into new, unfamiliar territory. Your brain sees the unknown and reacts with discomfort, interpreting it as a threat. But here’s the thing: discomfort isn’t a bad thing. It’s a sign of growth.

Think about going to the gym. The burn you feel when lifting weights isn’t a sign of weakness—it’s proof that your muscles are growing stronger. The same is true for your confidence.


How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome

The good news? You don’t have to let imposter syndrome stop you. While it may never fully go away (and that’s okay!), you can learn to quiet its voice and take action anyway. Here are five tools to help you do just that:

1. Reframe the Feeling

Instead of seeing imposter syndrome as a red flag, view it as a green light signaling growth. Remember, every time you push yourself into new territory, you’re building strength and resilience.

2. Replace Negative Self-Talk

When self-doubt creeps in, pause and challenge the thought. Ask yourself, “What evidence do I have that this is true?” Then replace it with a more empowering statement like, “I’m learning, I’m growing, and that’s enough right now.”

3. Keep a Wins Journal

Write down at least one win every day, no matter how big or small. Over time, this journal becomes a tangible reminder of your progress and achievements—proof that you’re capable.

4. Focus on Service, Not Perfection

Shift your mindset from “I need to be perfect” to “How can I make an impact?” When you focus on serving others, the pressure to have all the answers melts away.

5. Take the Brave Step

Action is the antidote to imposter syndrome. Start before you’re ready, and trust that confidence will grow through the process. Remember, progress beats perfection every time.


My Story: Stepping Into the Unknown

I’ll never forget the time I applied for a job in economic development, even though I didn’t have a degree or any formal training. I was up against candidates with impressive resumes, including a retired lawyer, and I felt completely out of my depth.

But something told me to go for it. I poured myself into preparing, showing up to the interview with a vision for the role, backed by research and ideas. To my surprise, I got the job!

Later, at my first statewide conference, I realized something shocking: nobody had a concrete definition of what economic development even was. Everyone was figuring it out as they went. That experience taught me an invaluable lesson—you don’t need to have all the answers to show up and make an impact.


What’s Your Next Brave Step?

Imposter syndrome doesn’t mean you’re not ready. It’s a sign you care deeply about your work and the impact you want to make. The world needs what only you can offer.

If you’re ready to stop second-guessing yourself and start stepping boldly into your potential, I’d love to help. My one-on-one coaching program is a personalized six-week journey designed to help creatives and entrepreneurs like you tackle self-doubt and take bold action.

Visit ChelsyWeisz.com/coaching to learn more and grab an exclusive Black Friday discount. Limited spots are available, so don’t wait!


Your Challenge for Today

Write down three reasons why you’re ready to take your next brave step. Reflect on your unique strengths and how they make you valuable. Whenever self-doubt creeps in, revisit this list to remind yourself that you’re capable, prepared, and ready.


Remember: Imposter syndrome doesn’t define you. It’s simply a sign you’re growing, and the world needs your unique voice. Take that brave step—you’ve got this!

Let’s connect! Share your thoughts in the comments or send me a message on Instagram. I’d love to hear about your journey.

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